So what are you looking for? (nu?)
Ah, that wonderful question. You’re a nice young man of marriageable age. What type of girl are you looking for.
I never have a good answer to that. Do I use the common list of adjectives? “well I just want a girl who is nice, kind with good middos…” Oh goody, I just described how every girl and their yentas describe themselves. I’m not looking for some type of girl. I’m looking for the girl who fits best with me. I don’t know how to describe her. I’m looking for an individual, not an employee who ticks the boxes on my checklist of attributes. Nevermind the fact that all girls are described the same… “pretty, kind, smart with lovely middos”.
Truth be told, the way I feel and the way I would see it happening is pretty well described in the NOFX song “We Got Two Jealous Agains”
“I thought you were the one when I heard Holidays in the Sun come from your bedroom / But when I saw Christ on Parade. And this is Boston, not LA. I knew you were the one. / I knew you were for me when I saw the first Vandals EP / I knew you were the one when I saw Machine Gun Etiquette. I knew you were the one when I saw the Peace War comp.”
I guess it’s about finding the person who shares your quirks and idiosyncrasies… or is at least willing to put up with them.
Song of the post: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3abkIM3l5Fg